Crap..post call and cant sleep...so typing nonsense here...........yawn............................
double triple quadruple yawn..........
crazy night.........have to do mdi counseling at 3 am in the morning.
now.........cant sleep pulak
ran out of lives in candy crush........so got nothing else better to do............................gosh...........
so worried................anxiety attack...............no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thursday, March 21, 2013
Wednesday, March 20, 2013
Behind every successful man there is a woman
Behind every successful man there is USUALLY a women but
Does every successful woman NORMALLY have a man backing her up?
Lets take a look at history. Chinese emperor with their 3000 concubines vs the great queen elizabeth the first of England....
Come modern day, Florence Nightingale, Mother Theresa, Helen Keller, Hilary Clinton, Oprah......vs big men like President Obama, Duke of Cambridge, Tiger Woods etc......
So what is the difference?The men all had loving wives behind their backs, supporting their every move, sharing their every success.........
The women?they had themselves i suppose. Take Hilary Clinton for instance, talk about family issue and look how well she fared on her own.
The point is, great women are almost always alone in their struggles of achieving their goals in life and dreams. Thus behind every successful man there is a woman but behind every successful women, there is usually a sad story.
Why the sudden thought u might ask....well....the last example to this testament would be me....i suppose i am not considered successful now...but if i have to choose to be the woman behind the man or to be a successful woman with a sad story..........i would without hesistation to choose the former............
However, it is not always a choice.....sometimes, life meant for you to do things that you originally never thought you could set out to do.......
A discussion with a good friend today enlightenend me.......we must all become a functioning individual...having your other half beside you is icing on the cake..without it, we still have to funtion........that is a good way of ensuring an equal balanced relationship between two people.........
Very true......sad to say.....all those successful women........not all is as lucky as the heroine in my favourite book, Falling Leaves.
Sisters out there, i post a question to you....do you want to be a successful woman or a woman behind a successful man?
Does every successful woman NORMALLY have a man backing her up?
Lets take a look at history. Chinese emperor with their 3000 concubines vs the great queen elizabeth the first of England....
Come modern day, Florence Nightingale, Mother Theresa, Helen Keller, Hilary Clinton, Oprah......vs big men like President Obama, Duke of Cambridge, Tiger Woods etc......
So what is the difference?The men all had loving wives behind their backs, supporting their every move, sharing their every success.........
The women?they had themselves i suppose. Take Hilary Clinton for instance, talk about family issue and look how well she fared on her own.
The point is, great women are almost always alone in their struggles of achieving their goals in life and dreams. Thus behind every successful man there is a woman but behind every successful women, there is usually a sad story.
Why the sudden thought u might ask....well....the last example to this testament would be me....i suppose i am not considered successful now...but if i have to choose to be the woman behind the man or to be a successful woman with a sad story..........i would without hesistation to choose the former............
However, it is not always a choice.....sometimes, life meant for you to do things that you originally never thought you could set out to do.......
A discussion with a good friend today enlightenend me.......we must all become a functioning individual...having your other half beside you is icing on the cake..without it, we still have to funtion........that is a good way of ensuring an equal balanced relationship between two people.........
Very true......sad to say.....all those successful women........not all is as lucky as the heroine in my favourite book, Falling Leaves.
Sisters out there, i post a question to you....do you want to be a successful woman or a woman behind a successful man?
Monday, March 18, 2013
To revive is to learn to give CPR
Poor blog,
i have abandoned u for almost a year....gosh......u havent heard me ranting ever since i started working in a new hospital have you?
well, time to give you some CPR........ready?
Life has been wonderful to me...........i have recently became sister to two of my friends who got married....
very touching ceremonies too.......its these times that i wonder about the white dress and whether i will ever have the chance of wearing one.
When i looked back.......yup........life has been hard for me for the past 6 years...true....i have been alone with all the struggles of life, ups and downs.....but hey......i met so many ji mui along the way that cares so much for me and when my psychologist asked me to share who my support group people are..........i find them...........not just the girls in the pics.........my besties cy,chelfi, ls.........u guys will always be my besties.......going further maylyn n whye san....yea...i think so .....if i do one day get a chance to wear a white dress.......i've got my girls.......but unfortunately...some really too far le........need to save up so can sponsor u all.......
Gosh...suddenly i am planning my wedding pulak.........here's the catch...got no one to marry to......hahaha....wat a joke.........for a person whose lfie is so bleak at the moment..........i really needed something or someone to look forward to...........
maybe i try to hard....because i feel so tired now........i'm sorry for trying to hard to find someone that i can love and that loves me back. i will stop now for a rest and just let it be. accept when it comes and when it doesnt...i should spend my time doing something else better or risk being hurt over and over again...........again
Wish me luck bloggie dear. besides this attempt to revive u...i am also going to try and revive myself
i have abandoned u for almost a year....gosh......u havent heard me ranting ever since i started working in a new hospital have you?
well, time to give you some CPR........ready?
very touching ceremonies too.......its these times that i wonder about the white dress and whether i will ever have the chance of wearing one.
When i looked back.......yup........life has been hard for me for the past 6 years...true....i have been alone with all the struggles of life, ups and downs.....but hey......i met so many ji mui along the way that cares so much for me and when my psychologist asked me to share who my support group people are..........i find them...........not just the girls in the pics.........my besties cy,chelfi, ls.........u guys will always be my besties.......going further maylyn n whye san....yea...i think so .....if i do one day get a chance to wear a white dress.......i've got my girls.......but unfortunately...some really too far le........need to save up so can sponsor u all.......
Gosh...suddenly i am planning my wedding pulak.........here's the catch...got no one to marry to......hahaha....wat a joke.........for a person whose lfie is so bleak at the moment..........i really needed something or someone to look forward to...........
maybe i try to hard....because i feel so tired now........i'm sorry for trying to hard to find someone that i can love and that loves me back. i will stop now for a rest and just let it be. accept when it comes and when it doesnt...i should spend my time doing something else better or risk being hurt over and over again...........again
Wish me luck bloggie dear. besides this attempt to revive u...i am also going to try and revive myself
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